How To Increase Your First Kiss Chances on a First Date

 First dates are notorious for nervous laughter, awkward conversations, and wondering whether or not you should kiss your date. While being nervous and awkward is kind of out of your control to an extent, the first kiss isn’t. It’s whether you choose to lean in for that kiss that decides whether or not it’s going to happen.

Really the decision on whether or not to kiss on the first date is not going to be decided until the end of the date. Not unless you are brave and lean in for a kiss at the beginning of the date, which is probably not a good idea.

Whether you kiss depends on the flow of the date, the chemistry you have, the reaction you are getting from your date, and whether or not you are in a position to do so at the end of the date. You can’t know from the beginning of the date whether it’s going to happen or not, but you can set up the date so it has the best chance of having a good night kiss.

Keep the Date Sexy

You may be tempted to play it cool and not let your date see how much you like them, but if you act overly aloof to your date then they make think you are not interested in them, and the chemistry will not be there for them. Chemistry is important for wanting that first kiss! If you don’t have chemistry then you don’t want to kiss, it’s as simple as that.

Even if you don’t feel the chemistry from the beginning of the date don’t dismiss the chance of it coming during the date sometime. If you act as though you are interested in them then you will create that bond of connection and your chances for a first kiss at the end of the date will increase.

So make sure that you let them know you are interested in them by checking them out once In a while. Also, avoid checking out other people as they walk by as this will definitely turn off your date.

You can also use touch to your advantage and touch them in some way during your date. You can put your hand on their hand quickly or touch them on the arm while you are walking. Any kind of touch is going to send that feeling of electricity through you and them if there is chemistry, and the first kiss will be on both of your minds.

If at the end of the date you decide that they are not the one for you then you don’t have to worry about the first kiss! It’s as easy as that!

How To Increase Your First Kiss Chances on a First Date by Bellaisa Filippis