Dating Tips

 Some people consider dating one of those necessary “evils” that they need to go through even though it can sometimes lead to not-too-successful experiences.  However, there are those who look at dating as an opportunity to get to know other people and see if they have that chemistry that is often needed in order to pursue something more.  The “something more” can have a variety of definitions, depending on who is being asked, but what follows are a few dating tips that will hopefully make dating as painless as possible and lead to more dates or maybe bring daters one step closer to their happily-ever-afters.

1. Everyone wants to make the kind of positive first impression that is meant to last.  Unfortunately, men and women end up trying much harder than they should have to and could give up the exact opposite impression.  Relax and be as easy going as possible in order to enjoy the other person’s company.

2. Dating is a getting-to-know-you process and a person talking about themselves should be expected.  However, truly successful communication entails knowing when to talk and when to listen.  If the other person seems to be shy, one should not hesitate to ask questions to prompt them to share more interesting details about themselves.

3. It has been said that “Variety is the spice of life” and this is true even in the realm of dating.  Whether it is the very first date or the nth date, coming up with dates that are creative can help light, re-ignite, or fuel that spark to capture and keep someone’s attention.

4. Daters often have their own expectations when it comes to both the person they will be going out with and what the date will be like.  There is nothing wrong with having expectations but overly high ones may lead to being set up for disappointment.  Have fun and try to make the most of the time together.

There are a lot more dating tips that so-called dating experts and family and friends can give but whether someone is completely new to dating game or is trying their luck once again after a failed relationship, the most important thing to remember is to be authentic.  Being authentic does not mean to merely be honest with the other person but to be honest with oneself.  Knowing what both parties want, need, and expect in a relationship helps to better prepare them to either meet those wants, needs, and expectations or to decide to pursue their interests with other people.

Dating Tips by Cedric Loiselle